Stuff people come to therapy for
Stuff that I work a lot with in my practice
ADHD
We’ll process the impact of ADHD, and work on skills to improve life with ADHD — and all of that will rest on the recognition that ADHD is a manifestation of neurodiversity not character flaws.
Adolescents
My big picture view is that therapy provides adolescents a necessary third space that is not the family, is not school, nor any of their extra-curricular spaces where they are positioned between an authority figure and the high stakes of a social group. In therapy, they get to just be, on equal footing, with an adult who is just a person.
For the ones who aren’t sure about this whole therapy thing, our first sessions will be a chance to vibe it out, see if I feel like a good fit for them. Nor harm nor foul, if I’m not. Exploring different therapists can be part of the process.
Couples & relationship work
My work with couples is pretty interactive, but not centered on a triangle between each of you and me. Instead, the emphasis is on the interaction between the two of you, here and now, in the session. Nor are therapy sessions a forum to re-hash the past for its own sake. Instead, the focus is on creating new experiences between you—reconnecting, re-learning one another, and developing new interaction patterns in situ.
EMDR-related work, including trauma
Other stuff that I work with
Cannabis dependence
Screentime
Psychedelic integration
*Client gestures at the world*
Treatment formats
- Individual therapy (one-on-one)
- Couples/family therapy
- Group therapy
- Dyadic therapy
Note: Family therapy doesn’t have to include the whole family. “Dyadic” can be any two people, including friends, co-workers, business partners.
Populations
Tweens · Teens · Young adults · Adults · Elders
Specific Therapies
EMDR
Potent in its effect and elegant in its structure, I really love EMDR -either in its standard protocol or in a more decompressed format. If you are coming in to digest an experience, it’s a great way to go.
CBT
Yes, there will be homework. But you are also learning skills and an orientation to yourself and the world that alter your relationship to both.
PACT
I value approaches focused on creating new, positive experiences in the here and now. PACT does that for couples. Instead of rehashing the past, partners reconnect, re-learn one another, and develop new interaction patterns in situ.
Hi-Fi Therapy
Different ways to use therapy
Single Session Therapy
One-off support
Check-in
Referral support
Fixed-course therapy
A defined course of therapy can work well when you have a specific issue to address, or are wanting to key in on one element of a more complicated issue. Or when time, finances, or personal preference make an open-ended commitment less appealing.
Fixed-course Therapy is goal oriented and present-focused. We agree on a range of sessions, and a reasonably focused target at the outset. That target can be one part of a more complicated problem, but usually we won’t attempt to address everything related to that problem.
EMDR
Adjunct EMDR can be used for clients seeing another therapist, where the client and their therapist have identified a specific target that they feel would benefit from EMDR. In this case, the client and I keep our focus tight on that target and therapy ends when it has been processed.